No friends

I know what my problem is of why I have no friends. It just dawned on me. I have always had very few close girl friends. Most of my friends have been boys. Since I became married all my male friends I had became his friends. I haven't made any new ones lately. I just don't connect with the girls and the boys I steer clear of entirely. It's so hard to find a good female friend that I can connect with. And I'm not comfortable having a male friend. I'm just scared that the friendship/affair line is to easy crossed and I don't want to chance it. Because for me befriending someone means that I love something about them and they give something back to me. Friendship based on admiration can lead to attraction. Foolish attraction though only meant to satisfy you urges for a short moment.